The Queer Collegiate

Resolutions

2010-01-01T12:49:00.006-06:00

I would like to share with you a very short excerpt from one of my favorite novels and authors: from Love, Stargirl:

Dear Leo,
I love beginnings. If I were in charge of calendars, every day would be January 1.

I couldn't agree with Stargirl more. Why? Because if every day were January 1, we could make new year's resolutions every day. So this is what I propose: make one new year's resolution every day starting today 'till December 31, 2010. This next step is important: write them all down with their corresponding dates, then buy a calendar or put the resolutions in an electronic calendar for the year 2011. By doing this, you can start off each day by reminding yourself what you've achieved in one year–reminding you that each day is a new beginning.

If you need one to start, try this – By December 31, 2011: I will have accomplished all 365 of my new year's resolutions for 2010.

Stay warm, lovelies :-) See you all real soon!

Sincerely yours,
The Queer Collegiate

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I'm resolved/IOU

2010-01-01T00:02:00.006-06:00

You’ve probably realized that sometime between my last post and this one, 2009 ended and 2010 began. Exciting, isn’t it? I think so. Now, I’m not sure if it’s because I graduated in 2008 or the fact that my classes this semester sucked, but 2009 was flat out disappointing (except we got rid of Bush for good). To 2009, I say, good riddance!

So, here’s to hoping that 2010 is at least 100 times more extraordinary than 2009.

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... I'm pretty sure this is the part I talk about my resolutions for 2010 to make it a better year than 2009. However, it’s 1:30 a.m. here, and I'm tired.

Give me something like 12 hours and I'll give you a real post :-)

Sincerely yours,
The Queer Collegiate

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The Top 10 Albums in 2009

2009-12-31T22:55:00.018-06:00

First, it’s not even 2009 in my timezone anymore, so... whoops! Sorry about that!

Second, I apologize again for taking so long to write you all a second post. Procrastination is a bitch, but I'm working on it. Promise.

Third, do not be fooled by the order in which I have placed the following albums. Each of these artists is extraordinarily talented and deserves your respect and admiration. It should go without saying that I expect you to buy these albums immediately :-)

Hotel Paper (Deluxe Version) – Michelle Branch
Favorite Tracks: “Find Your Way Back” and “Tuesday Morning"
I realize that Michelle released this CD in 2003, but I’m happy to report that the deluxe version of it did in fact come out in 2009–qualifying it for the praise it deserves here. This re-released version of Hotel Paper includes only three new tracks–and here’s why, with only three new tracks, this album makes my top ten list. I’ve been a huge fan of Michelle since she hit the scene in 2000. Since her debut, she’s made a name for herself in the alternative, pop, and country music scenes. Her lyrics are complex, yet satisfying–allowing her songs to reach a wide range of listeners; and on this album she achieves what many try to, but ultimately fall short of: honesty. I usually don’t look into the future unless I have my Miss Cleo weave in, but I’m seeing Michelle Branch making a huge impact on the music industry by the time she’s forty.

Glee - The Music, Volume 1 – Glee Cast
Favorite Tracks: “Don’t Stop Believing” and “Taking Chances”
I’m just going to say it: Idina Menzel and the Billboard 200 had a love child and gave it to FOX to adopt and raise as its own... except there was all this baby drama and–in a nutshell–the entire series is completely autobiographical. Again, if I’m just being honest, Glee is the television version of High School Musical (with much, much, much better casting, song selection, and vocal talent). Although Lea Michele is clearly the preferred vocalist by Glee’s producers, it is clear that every voice is on board because it has proven itself worthy of stardom.

The Fray – The Fray
Favorite Tracks: “Say When” and “Enough For Now”
It’s taking a lot out of me right now to admit that I actually like The Fray because they are so widely revered by annoying people. However, in this case I will make an exception and admit I’m being stubborn... because this album is brilliant. I’m sure that, like me, most naturally gravitated toward the singles on the album (“Never Say Never,” “You Found Me”). And although the rest of the album fails to hook in listeners as these signature pieces, each track offers a unique and altogether wonderful storyline that simply reinforces The Fray’s reputation as awesome.

It’s Not Me, It’s You – Lily Allen
Favorite Tracks: “Who’d Have Known,” “Him,” and “Chinese”
It’s a rare musical experience that comes along and allows me both room to laugh and think critically about society. Thankfully, Lily Allen has mastered the art of lyricism to perfection in this album. Whether she’s singing about anti-depressants, God, or chinese food, I get it. Why is it people enjoy a songwriter who leaves a wall up between themselves and their audience? I enjoy much more a musician who brings us into her world and helps us see rainbows in the coffee stains.

Brand New Eyes – Paramore
Favorite Tracks: “Careful” and “Brick By Boring Brick,”
Mohandas Gandhi said, “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.” There’s no question here that I love, love, love Paramore and this album. What I don’t love are Paramore’s fans who are all huge posers. Truth be told, this discussion topic doesn’t even belong in here, but it had to be said. At least I can be grateful that this sad fact doesn’t affect the quality of their performance or songwriting abilities. Congratulations, team! Another job well-done!

All I Ever Wanted – Kelly Clarkson
Favorite Tracks: “Don’t Let Me Stop You,” “Already Gone,” and “Long Shot”
I don’t care where you stand on Idol–you have to give it up for Kelly Clarkson. She has matured beautifully while keeping her firecracker attitude and killer style. Individually, these songs remind me a lot of her second album, Breakaway, but as a whole, they tell a much more interesting story that goes beyond abandonment and destruction. This is what I admire about Kelly. I know her songs will be different, but I can always look forward to the same passion and vocal integrity in every performance.

The Script – The Script
Favorite Tracks: “The Man Who Can’t Be Moved,” “Breakeven,” and “If You See Kay”
I came across this album while browsing the most popular albums on iTunes in March. While I don’t recommend looking for an excuse to buy something, I do recommend buying this treasure from Dublin. Tracks from this album are on my exercise, errands, and homework playlists; any old-fashioned fan of pop and rock will find The Script irresistible, so go ahead and take a chance on something different.

The Fame Monster – Lady Gaga
Favorite Tracks: “Alejandro,” “Telephone (feat. Beyoncé),” and “Speechless”
I don’t know one gay man... or any gay person, actually... who doesn’t love Lady Gaga. She’s certainly formulated to appeal to gay audiences. She has a powerful voice, a hot bod, dance moves that would–and have–put Madonna to shame, and she’s even dedicated an award to us! Gaga-gadget grammy! (I hope you all get that allusion.) To anyone who doesn’t see promise in this woman, I dare you to find another female vocal prodigy to match her success. What’s different between the two? Most of the time it will be Gaga’s incredible songwriting and her shameless wardrobe–signifying she really couldn’t give a fuck... another reason why gays love her.

Belle Isle – MoZella
Favorite Tracks: “Manhattan,” “Four Leaf Clover,” “Let’s Stop Calling It Love,” and “Twilight Girls”
If you don’t know who MoZella is, google her right now. I’ll be here when you get back. It truly has been a fantastic year for MoZella. Her music has been spotted in commercials, in popular TV shows, and she’s shared the stage with acts like Colbie Caillat and Michelle Branch! It’s going to be hard to tell you why I love this artist and her album because there are so many reasons that just feed off each other. The first reason is because I simply love MoZella’s voice–it’s unique to say the least. The second reason is because her songwriting is amazing–music, lyrics, everything. The third: she’s gorgeous! The fourth: she’s humble. There is nothing stopping you and I from having a conversation with her right now. Always willing to go into depth about her music, life, and more, MoZella is an artist who deserves all the attention she’s received this year and more. Here’s hoping 2010 is as great a year for her as 2009 was!

Ellipse – Imogen Heap
Favorite Tracks: “First Train Home,” “Bad Body Double,” and “Tidal (Instrumental)”
I discovered Imogen Heap after a few of my friends at school told me about The O.C.’s season 2 finale. I still haven’t watched it, but “Hide and Seek” off Heap’s Speak for Yourself has since become one of my favorite tracks. Another very unique voice, Imogen Heap made a name for herself as one half of the UK-based Frou Frou. She split from her partner, and started her own musical career. Ellipse is a culmination of artistic freedom, raw talent, and full-throttled passion. The deluxe version of the CD includes all 13 tracks and their instrumentals (for just 3 dollars more), so you can hear all of the amazing producing and mastering Heap has done herself in her home studio in England.

Sincerely yours,
The Queer Collegiate

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What I only wish someone had told me as a first year.

2009-08-12T17:23:00.006-05:00

Yeah, we call them ‘first years,’ at my school. ‘Freshman’ comes with a certain connotation that implies that our high school experiences are meaningless. I mean, come on, any self-respecting queen will tell you those four years had better damn well count for something in college.

Anyway. Ladies, gentlemen, and and the like.

It brings me such great joy to bring you our first post ever. Ever. How cool is that? I got the inspiration for this post reading a coupon book in CVS. There was a section called, “Back to School” and I almost shit myself because I realized that I’ll be halfway across the continent–again–in less than two weeks! I suppose this time of the year just has a way of creeping up on me like winter break or finals.

This post is directed toward the first-year/freshman community although I feel it carries weight for every college student. As a slightly nostalgic and seasoned sophomore, I would like to offer some general advice that I would have been lucky to hear a year ago.

1. If you live far away from school, get on top of things fast. Seriously, the more time you leave yourself to plan, pack, and prepare, the better. For those of us moving in alone, things can get overwhelming, fast. Use the time you have at home to make to-do lists, pack, and call the admissions office or residential life with general questions.
Why this is important: College is unexplored territory. For all you know, you won't have a spare minute ‘till your second or third week (especially if your school pushes a very aggressive orientation program). If you're prepared, you'll also be a lot more comfortable on campus.

2. Never, and I mean never order books from the book store. Go through every other means of buying, borrowing, and begging before you turn to the book store. Notorious for over-pricing and buying books back for a decimal of the selling price, the book store might as well be the most morally corrupt place on this planet besides the Republican National Convention.
Why this is important: Besides sticking it to the man, you’ll save hundreds of dollars each semester. Places to hit up before the book store are: the library, other students, amazon, Ebay, and dumpsters. Really.

3. Look for scholarships like it’s your ~~second~~ only job. Tons of scholarships are only available to college students, so please, before you start with the money woes, do your best to take advantage of the financial aid office and outside scholarships.
Why this is important: Nothing sucks more than graduating in debt... with interest. Paying it back before you graduate is a much smarter choice if you ever want to move out of your parents' house.

4. Give it your all. I know it sounds corny, but if you go to college with a skeptical attitude, you’re only setting yourself up for failure. If you go to school without expectations and you’re open to the experiences ahead of you (and you actually take advantage of them), chances are you’ll enjoy your stay a lot more than if you're in your room every night.
Why this is important: Nobody likes a pessimist and you can't be fabulous if you're always pouting. Plus, it’s better to regret an action than the lack of action. Join some organizations, try yoga, attend a student congress meeting, go out every once in a while, drink responsibly, and dance your ass off!

5. Avoid controlling relationships. You can’t let your parents pick your major, and if you do, I feel sorry for you. What is the point of going to school if you hate what you’re studying? Also, if you’re constantly having to come home to comfort a lonely boy/girlfriend, it’s time you stuck up for yourself. Only a select few people can make long distance relationships work, and these people are either saints or unconcerned about what they’re missing out on.
Why this is important: College is a good place to begin your journey to self-reliance. These years more often than not define who you become later in life, so do what feels right. Of course the opinions of your loved ones still matter, and giving them acknowledgment helps to keep them at bay. Just don’t do something you’ll regret later because you’re a people pleaser.

So, lovelies. There’s my little list of advice especially helpful going into your first year of college, or any year, really. I hope you’re able to appreciate and follow it, and of course, if you need any help, feel free to e-mail me :-)

Sincerely yours,
The Queer Collegiate